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Lack of diversity...
It's beginning to concern me that not very many women out there have the same interests as me. It seems like there is nobody that I can match with, a lot of the people I end up meeting are already in a relationship or I can't get past their personality. Example, most girls around my age are really well kept up on makeup, or the latest fashion trend, or the newest gadget that'll do exactly what the last gadget did, but none of them (that I've met) show any significant signs of deeper thinking or individual though, it's like none of them have anything unique to say and I've heard exactly the same thing a million times before. I end up putting on a fake smile and nodding accordingly... then feel stupid for it later.
Where are the girls who think for themselves and don't give a fuck about if this product is more expensive than the other one? Where are the girls who want a deeper connection, passion, spontaneous interaction, and a genuine connection with the opposite sex? Where are the girls who want to feel comfortable about knowing their boyfriend isn't going to fuck the first thing with two legs walking down the street? Don't those guys count for anything these days? Where are the girls who want to learn things for the sake of having knowlege? Sorry for this, the whole thing just makes me feel totally frustrated, I stand at a subjective point of view seeing all these things going on, friends telling me about their problems, and everytime it seems like I have the perfect solution... but still, the second part of my equation is missing. I feel like I would make a nearly perfect boyfriend to any chick willing to give me the chance. So to sum things up, I feel like I have a lot of things to offer that not a lot of girls want, I know tons of shit that your average lady wouldn't give a damn about, I would consider myself on the geeky side, but I don't think there's anything wrong with that, I'm not terribly hideous, I have a job, I'm going to go back to school... Idk... it's just a frustrating feeling and I needed to vent...
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09-26-2008, 04:10 PM
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If you do think that girls your age are so superficial, why not just try to get older women? Not by a lot, mind you. Maybe 5, 6 years older, tops. Maybe you're just more mature than those stupid bitches... And by the way, that's what I do, and I'm your age.
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09-26-2008, 04:30 PM
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Not everyone wants the same thing(s), but, if a relationship is truly to be worth it, then the two of you will have to meet somewhere in the middle by making some sacrifices.
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09-26-2008, 05:16 PM
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Idk, I think you guys are right, I just need to look elswhere.
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09-27-2008, 12:26 AM
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 ).As far as those specific interests and issues, your partner doesn't have to necessarily meet those needs. It's nice to have a partner with different interests. If that's what you want, then don't let me tell you what to do, but you could also have them develop an interest in it. Whatever it is, there's someone out there. Don't rush to find the person who is right for you. You might find out you never knew in the first place.
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09-28-2008, 03:09 AM
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 Keep an open mind and I'm sure you'll find someone who doesn't frustrate the hell out of you eventually... perhaps you just have to get past whatever facade those you're attracted to put up. We all have one, to some degree or another, we just have to learn to look past them and find common interests to balance the differences.
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09-28-2008, 09:01 AM
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 i really hope you find an amazing gal out here in California. i know a lot of them can be total barbie dolls, with only plastic in their heads. hmm... as to finding women other places... i don't really know where you've been looking...but if you're interested in politics, there's always independent girls that you can find with passion in politics and world issues at (kinda funny, but true): protests. or rallies. i met a great girl there once... we didn't stay together, but that's cuz i was jailbait  you'll probably have a lot more luck with the ladies than i did. ^^ keep up your amazing self, Stoss. and Don't change who ya are. cuz it's just too good to pass off. 
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10-02-2008, 01:16 PM
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Alot of women, well, girls, really, are completely fake, and do whatever it takes to impress, but thats it. But you should also realise, that alot of them are like that because that is how they were brought up, or they only know people like that. Get to meet a girl. Bring out the good stuff in here. --------------- Added 02 Oct 2008 at 01:16 pm --------------- I understand your crisis. Alot of women, well, girls, really, are completely fake, and do whatever it takes to impress, but thats it. But you should also realise, that alot of them are like that because that is how they were brought up, or they only know people like that. Get to meet a girl. Bring out the good stuff in here.
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10-16-2008, 05:16 PM
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 . I'm a halfwit though in comparrison lol. I have been trying to train myself to think properly again after I had my son... which is a great feat considering.... ... but there are women out there like that you just haven't found that right one quite yet. You will.
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10-16-2008, 05:38 PM
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