This would make Jerry Springer laugh

Hazing Reality · #1 (**permalink**) 11-05-2007, 02:55 PM

Been dating a married (but separated) woman for like 5 months... broke it up with her because her "sister" (her husband's brother's wife) and I have taken a good falling out, to be polite. She is my ex's live-in nanny while her husband (the sister's) is in jail. We basically can't stand to be in the same room as each other for good reasons. But I broke up with my ex on Thursday, and saw her for the first time last night. We were alone for a couple minutes and didn't say anything, but ended up hugging for awhile and just one lingering kiss at the end.

Any advice people? I kinda don't want to deal with her sister's bullshit, but I miss her and I know she misses me, cause we have talked on the phone, where she just broke down about the whole situation, but feels a need for the bitch that is living with her. Don't know... already got another date tonight, but I am still trying to figure out how I should handle my current situation...

**Ginevra** · 11-05-2007, 03:08 PM

You left her because her sister's a bitch? That's harsh. You could have just hung out at your place, that's what we did when my boyfriend's mother had a few month long huge-bitch phase.

On the other hand, if you work somewhere you shouldn't be a bitch to the people there. Why would you pay a bitch-nanny? You could have suggested that your girlfriend tell her nanny not to be a bitch if she wanted to work for her. But I think leaving her was overreacting.

11-18-2007, 11:44 PM

it'd be worse if it was actually her sister..but it's her ex-sister in law! There's a difference!