The Singles Corner

**eXosYn** · #1 (**permalink**) 06-22-2008, 09:28 PM

So, I have been noticing the amount of singles on the rise and wanted to know who else finds themselves without that "special someone" that makes them feel wonderful no matter what the day has given them....

Who else is in the same boat...? Any thoughts on it?

Static · 06-23-2008, 12:43 AM

Yeah, I know what you mean. I've been thinking about actively persuing trying to get into a relationship, but it's not a top priority at the moment. Whatever happens happens.

**Opunaya** · 06-23-2008, 04:46 AM

Ooh! Ooh! Me! I'm there! In fact, I was single before being single was cool.

I hate it. I'm so freakin' sick and tired of being alone...

**eXosYn** · 06-23-2008, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Static

Yeah, I know what you mean. I've been thinking about actively persuing trying to get into a relationship, but it's not a top priority at the moment. Whatever happens happens.

That's the same state I'm in. If it's mean to happen, I guess it will..could be the girl at the coffeehouse, the waitress at the local restaurant or the young woman at the supermarket. Guess it's not up to me to decide..

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Originally Posted by Opunaya

Ooh! Ooh! Me! I'm there! In fact, I was single before being single was cool.

I hate it. I'm so freakin' sick and tired of being alone...

I hear that all the time from ya...and I feel your pain.

Stossel · 06-23-2008, 06:30 AM

None of the choice adequately describe me.

I am a dependent person. I don't like being alone at all, I don't like how I think when I'm alone, and I don't like how I act when I'm alone. And for relationships, it's largely conducted so that I really focus in on the person I'm involved with, and have strong emotions revolving around that person. When I don't have this, I am quite mediocre, and I don't have those feelings. As low as my extreme lows get, I know there are extreme highs from these relationships, and I appreciate both. So, I don't like being single because I like feeling these strong, intense emotions.

**Opunaya** · 06-23-2008, 06:42 AM

You sound like me, Stoss. And that's not a good thing.

I love feeling loved, you know? Because I'm like "You know what? No matter what happens, because at least (whomever) still loves me."

GentleSpikeResort · 06-23-2008, 06:50 AM

Usually I don't mind being lonely, but right now being single is killing me. There's this cute girl at work that I really want to get connected with, but I keep bailing out when I have a chance to talk to her.

I can either get over her and not care again, or finally actually talk to her. And if I talk to her, two things could happen: she could say no and I move on, or we get to know each other and we take it easy.

None of the options to this poll seem to describe what's goin' on right now.

**Opunaya** · 06-23-2008, 06:53 AM

That's because this thread is mainly to bitch about being single and girls just "wanting to be friends" and then complaining that there's no good guys out there to date when one is fucking STARING THEM IN THE FACE.

**Arcángel** · 06-23-2008, 07:21 AM

*cracks his knuckles*

Bueno, to me its not much a bad thing to be single but, when you're going in and out of relationships and you keep on getting the same shit back - which in my case, is absolutely nothing - one begins to think about his or her approach to things like this. Questions like "what in the backwards fuck kind of shit is this" and other questiosn to that effect will come so one's mind, especially mine.

Every relationship that I have been a part of so far, with the exception of one, has ended on bad terms with them blaming the demise of said relationship on me. And I think so myself, so this is what 110% gives you? Thius is what makes me want to be single.

I admit though, that being single, I do get lonely. There is one person that I have my eye on right now as a matter of fact, who is someone that I think that, between her and I, a good thing might come out of it. For now though, I have other things to take care of and a previousl relationship that is a thorn in my side because of how it ended.

So yes, I'm single. Yes, I do think that it is a good thing, no, I am not too fond of the loneliness that comes with it but, what else can someone do but wait, hope and dream? What makes it all worthwile is knowing that there is some Girl out there that is probably fighting the same fight and who probably knows exactly what I'm going throuigh. All I have to do is find her.

**Opunaya** · 06-23-2008, 07:24 AM

In pretty much every relationship I've ever been in, I've always been told that it was my fault that it ended and that I wasn't good enough for them...so, I kind of feel like I'm better off single, but I hate it, lol.