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#1 (**permalink**) 11-16-2007, 09:50 PM

Me and my fiancee have been engaged three months now. We have had a good relationship. I am kind of messed up and jaded from all my other failed relationships. So I worry a lot and me and her talk a lot. I'm very happy about how much she talks to me when I have doubts. I honestly thought she would get annoyed by now.
So onto the wired thing that happened last night. Some guy on some board she posts to sent her an AIM. They were talking and he started inviting her to three ways and orgys and so on. She turned him down fairly well and she talked to me about it. She felt comfortable enough with me to show me there whole conversation.

Basically, my question. Has thing kind of thing happened to you? How do you keep guys off your girl?

everyone's favo · 11-16-2007, 10:07 PM

This is part of the trust issue. I had a episode with my girl recently about something like this as well, but in the end, it is YOU that she is with and not anyone else. If she wanted to be with someone else, she would be. But no, she is with YOU because she wants you.

I have trust issues as well, and it is something that you will have to work out. Just keep reminding yourself of that fact, and hopefully you will be fine.

As far as other guys putting the moves on your girl: well, thats something that will always happen. Men are pigs, end of discussion. It sounds like your girl is doing a good job of keeping them away though.

Static · 11-16-2007, 11:09 PM

yeah, I would be proud of that chick if I were you. I think she handled it perfectly. Just like Favo said, all it is is trust...

eDgE oF iNsAnItY · 11-17-2007, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Orideth

How do you keep guys off your girl?

Basically, what I do is a kick to the knee and a punch in the throat. That usually works... as for online... u can't really control it. In real life, though, like I said: kick to the knee, punch in the throat... that ends any fight quickly....

11-17-2007, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by eDgE oF iNsAnItY

Basically, what I do is a kick to the knee and a punch in the throat. That usually works... as for online... u can't really control it. In real life, though, like I said: kick to the knee, punch in the throat... that ends any fight quickly....

Thanks eDgE man, Ill try to keep that in mind. I always thought hitting them with a car was the right way to do it. It's good too see another way to do it.

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Originally Posted by everyone's favo

This is part of the trust issue. I had a episode with my girl recently about something like this as well, but in the end, it is YOU that she is with and not anyone else. If she wanted to be with someone else, she would be. But no, she is with YOU because she wants you.

I have trust issues as well, and it is something that you will have to work out. Just keep reminding yourself of that fact, and hopefully you will be fine.

As far as other guys putting the moves on your girl: well, thats something that will always happen. Men are pigs, end of discussion. It sounds like your girl is doing a good job of keeping them away though.

Yea, I'm learning to trust her more and more. I love the chick. I mean, I wouldn't have proposed to her if I didn't. She's an amazing girl and deserves all the trust in the world. Its just to do sometimes. I'm not use to someone actually caring for me that much. I'll get it eventually but yea, ill keep working on my self for her. Thanks.

**Ginevra** · 11-17-2007, 03:59 PM

My boyfriend has an odd take on guys hitting on his girlfriend. He thinks it's a compliment to her and it means he's got an attractive girl.

Anyway, I wouldn't worry about it, it's just some cyberfreak trying to talk to anything that claims to be female. And you don't have to keep them off of her, unless some guy's harassing her, like keeps following her around and it's driving her nuts. Then you can use Edge's method. =D

eDgE oF iNsAnItY · 11-17-2007, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginevra

My boyfriend has an odd take on guys hitting on his girlfriend. He thinks it's a compliment to her and it means he's got an attractive girl.

Which is true. But if they do it blatantly in your face, that's when you open up that can... u know, the one filled with whoopass.

iamthelordhitman · 11-17-2007, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by eDgE oF iNsAnItY

Which is true. But if they do it blatantly in your face, that's when you open up that can... u know, the one filled with whoopass.

really?

i'd prefer to cock my .45

**Opunaya** · 11-19-2007, 03:51 PM

I have trust issues too, not with a girl, but with the guys around them...it also doesn't help that I have low self-esteem...anyways, if she's your fiancee, then I guess you shouldn't have to worry too much.