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Old 10-10-2007, 02:33 PM
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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?

When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?

How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
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Old 10-10-2007, 02:46 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 10-10-2007, 04:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?

When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?

How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf

hmmmm....
tough questions. XD

1. the meanest thing?
... i guess it would be that I insulted him by 'talking down' to him... essentially arguing... and 'cutting' into personal experiences.

2. I simply keep it to myself and don't say anything to anyone. or i laugh about how mad I am at them. XD

3. b/c their generation is different. different rules 4 different social lifestyles. no?
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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?

When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?

How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
"Some day someone is going to fuck you over like you did to me, and I hope it's the person you marry or something. You'll be completely alone...asshole." Kind of harsh. Said this to the person I was engaged to a few years ago, he cheated...forgot to tell me for a month. I don't feel that bad.

I hardly ever really get mad or bitchy. I'm just easygoing and cheerful I guess. When someone does accomplish making me mad I just try to breathe and take 5 to cool it.

Parents do understand relationships. They made dumb mistakes like the younger generations do and they're probably trying to save ya some heartache later on. Parents are smart folks, I've learned to listen and think about what they said for sure.
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Old 10-10-2007, 04:37 PM   #5 (permalink)
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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?

When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?

How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
Meanest thing, I guess would be cheating on my old girlfriends and not telling them. And then when they found out, denied it and made them feel bad for accusing me. I don't do this anymore, but I used to all the time...

It takes a LOT to REALLY piss me off. So, by the time they've got me pissed off (if it's a guy) I'm knocking in their teeth. If it's a girl, I just tell them to fuck off and go about my business.

Umm... Exactly what whitney said. They just want the best for you. Maybe they are wrong about the guy you are wanting to be with. Then again, maybe you are wrong with him.
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the meanest thing i have ever told a boyfriend is that it was the biggest mistake in my life to date you and even your mom agrees to that...I am way better then you and i deserve you...oh wait, i am not alone in this thinking...both your mom and your dad believe that!

it is kinda harsh...at least i thought so...but it was the truth
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What's the meanest thing you ever said/did to your boyfriend / girlfriend that you felt bad about later?

When someone makes you really mad, what do you do to calm down? What helps you get over it?

How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
I broke his jaw with a jet ski.

I punch them in the face.

Because that's what parents do, have always done, and will always do. You'll do it too when you have kids.
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How come parents don't understand relationships today?? wtf
I lied. a lot. About what I felt about him, that there could be a future with us, things like that.

I go for a run, talk to someone, write it out, paint my nails, smoke, or sleep.

Because the concept of relationships is dynamic within our cuture; it is inevitable
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Old 10-11-2007, 01:11 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I dated a girl for something around a year in high school, real great chick. Anyway, it was long distance: she lived in Rochester, NY and I live in Pittsburgh, PA, and the trip between is about 5 hours or so. We saw each other more than once a month, though, so it wasn't too bad blah blah blah I obviously invited her to prom when that time came around and she bought a dress, plane ticket, the whole she bang. I broke up with her about a week and a half before prom.
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Wow, that is kind of harsh.

You know, I cannot honestly remember any of the mean things I have said towards the ones I have had relationships with. I was always mean to the girls I dated, now that I think about it. I would always tell them that they weren't worth my time and shit like that just because they liked to play little games.
Mainly the guys I dated treated me like shit. The first one I was with broke my windshield because I was 10 minutes late to pick him up from work...on top of that that was the first day we had gotten back together and he told me that he just dated me for that day so he could cheat on me and all kinds of fucked shit. He was retarded and I am sad to say that I was with that prick for three years of my life. He cheated on me god knows how many times...once with a pregnant chick [he was the godfather of the child] and twice with other boys, so yea...I know that affected me a lot. It made me harder, stronger and less emotional...I guess you could say. I distance myself from people a lot.

...but the only mean thing I can think of that I said is what I told Daniel last night. We hadn't had sex in a while and last night Daniel actually came on to me. We kind of did our thing but it lasted about 2 seconds. So I just laid there when he finished waiting to start again and he just sat there. I said, "Was that it?" He goes, "Well, I can't do anymore."
So I get up and go into the bathroom to calm down because I was fucking pissed. I hate feeling used, you know? You fuck me, get yours and then go to sleep?! Yea...fuck you.

So I calm down [or so I thought] and then went back into the bedroom and laid in bed. I started get mad again so I told him he was an asshole. Then I started to go on about how every time he does that it makes me feel used and that whenever I am on top or in control I make sure he always finishes before I do. He laid there acting like he was asleep, so I said..."Daniel, I know you're not that fucking tired." I chuckled, "That wasn't too much of a work out...what did you do? Hump me like four times?"

Which I think that might have stung his pride a little bit but I don't give a fuck. I mean yea the last thing I want to do is hurt him but I am not going to sit there and be ignored and disrespected like that and I WILL not stand for it. Plus, saying that got him to talk...


When I get mad, I need to be alone. Go off and do something to get my mind off of everything.
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