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Old 12-17-2007, 06:46 PM
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Loving 2 people at the same time.

Do you think it's possible to be in love with two people at the same time, YOU, YOURSELF. COULD YOU LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT ONCE??!?!? DO I HAVE TO STRESS THE WORD YOU TIMES TEN?
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Sure, if you believe in Polyamory.

I could never do it but for some I think it's possible.
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Wow, what a short-sighted question.

I'll let you define love before I give my opinion on whether or not I think your definition is applicable to more than one individual.

Keep in mind how many cultures there are, and how almost every single one of them has its own kinship patterns which sometimes include polyandry/polygyny (more than one husband/wife respectively). Also keep in mind that I am a casual social anthropologist/psychologist who realizes that love is a construct of culture as much as a biological function, with no universal application.

So, get on that definition.
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Wow, what a short-sighted question.

I'll let you define love before I give my opinion on whether or not I think your definition is applicable to more than one individual.

Keep in mind how many cultures there are, and how almost every single one of them has its own kinship patterns which sometimes include polyandry/polygyny (more than one husband/wife respectively). Also keep in mind that I am a casual social anthropologist/psychologist who realizes that love is a construct of culture as much as a biological function, with no universal application.

So, get on that definition.
For YOU to answer the question in YOUR opinion, you need to know what MY definition of love is? I just wanted to know what people thought about being in love with more than one person.

I can't explain love. I don't even know if I feel it right now. I have some very strong feelings for someone at the moment and I would risk my life for them. Is that love? I don't know. I don't know why I have to label it love. All I know is I want to be with him right now. Maybe forever, but I can't tell. Now if that's love then so be it. But all I know is that he makes me happy and I'd rather talk to him than anything.
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Sooooo who's the second person? Or did your question not really have to with your situation....
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Sooooo who's the second person? Or did your question not really have to with your situation....
No one. This has nothing to do with my situation; it's simply a question. She asked what was my definition of love so I answered...? Lol. I just wanted opinions, damn.
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Do you think it's possible to be in love with two people at the same time?
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For YOU to answer the question in YOUR opinion, you need to know what MY definition of love is? I just wanted to know what people thought about being in love with more than one person.

I can't explain love. I don't even know if I feel it right now. I have some very strong feelings for someone at the moment and I would risk my life for them. Is that love? I don't know. I don't know why I have to label it love. All I know is I want to be with him right now. Maybe forever, but I can't tell. Now if that's love then so be it. But all I know is that he makes me happy and I'd rather talk to him than anything.
For me to answer your question, I had to know the parameters of your question. One such parameter is your definition of love.
My point was that there are innumerable definitions, because it is not a concept bound to a specific culture. As such, some cultures interpret love differently, and some cultures do believe in loving more than one person.
The glorified Westernized concept of love that you see in all the Hollywood movies would say no; but the early Hebrews and Chinese were known to have multiple wives, as well as many modern fundamentalist Mormons. If your question is open to their idea of love, then I would say yes.

As you can see, the whole world doesn't share your view.

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The Zoe of the Amazon Basin would disagree.
As would the Nyinba people of Nepal, who practice a fraternal polyandry (all or many of the brothers marry one woman).
And not to mention Islam, where a man is allowed up to 4 wives.
Shall I go on?

How about you just read up?
Polyamory - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia(click)
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For me to answer your question, I had to know the parameters of your question. One such parameter is your definition of love.
My point was that there are innumerable definitions, because it is not a concept bound to a specific culture. As such, some cultures interpret love differently, and some cultures do believe in loving more than one person.
The glorified Westernized concept of love that you see in all the Hollywood movies would say no; but the early Hebrews and Chinese were known to have multiple wives, as well as many modern fundamentalist Mormons. If your question is open to their idea of love, then I would say yes.

As you can see, the whole world doesn't share your view.
Uhm, well obviously the world doesn't share my view... that's why I asked for everyone else's views on the subject. And I really still don't understand why you need my interpretation of love. I'm asking what you think of it and if you can love two people. This question has nothing to do with me and my thoughts on love... lol
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Uhm, well obviously the world doesn't share my view... that's why I asked for everyone else's views on the subject. And I really still don't understand why you need my interpretation of love. I'm asking what you think of it and if you can love two people. This question has nothing to do with me and my thoughts on love... lol
I don't think anyone has the exact same view on love. It all comes down to a matter of perspective.
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