how do u get a girl??

#1 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 10:30 PM

if you're both single, how do you approach a girl and get her to like you? how do you know if she's into you without letting her know that you're into her?

Static · 11-13-2007, 10:50 PM

For me, I personally like to know a chick before I start thinking about weather or not I want to sleep with her, I like personality, so I guess you have to know someone a little bit to be a good judge of ther personality, and by that point, it's a lot easier to be dropping little signals and flirting and stuff. But I guess good eye contact and body language would be the most important thing if you were trying to pick up some chick in a club or something, it's like 80% of what you say doesn't come out of your mouth, and first impressions are the most important part, just be interesting and don't tell the chick the same shit she's heard a thousand times before. It would probably help to bring a drink over to her too...lol.

**Ginevra** · 11-13-2007, 11:07 PM

Well, you can present yourself in the best way possible, but be honest, don't pretend to be something you're not and realize that you're not the right guy for every girl out there.

Before I list out a bunch of stuff, what's the environment where you'll be meeting ladies? Are you still in school or hitting the clubs?

As a side note, hopefully you're not just stopping in to use us for advice and poof, so if you could fill us in on info like age and school level and hobbies by making a new thread in the Newbies section, it'd be appreciated. ^ ^

**Opunaya** · 11-14-2007, 05:41 AM

Slap her with your penis, just to show her who's boss.

Zen · 11-14-2007, 07:49 AM

For a real relationship to work...
First one has to honestly understand oneself...
Then one has to be able to honestly express oneself...
Then one has to find a partner who can honestly understand oneself, and vice versa...

So yeah, I would say honesty is the key...
This obviously takes some time, but is well worth the struggle...
As real love is the ultimate reward, and can radically change our realities...

w8_4_the_moonrise · 11-14-2007, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Opunaya

Slap her with your penis, just to show her who's boss.

tsk! tsk! Opu I'm telling mom...

We'll probably need more information from you like do you know her already, is this a specific girl, what you two might have in common... the more details the better. But here's a little something to get you started anyway if you're still around.

Body language is the key, a a girl is doing a lot of "preening" (ex. touching her hair, fixing her shirt) that is a good indication of subconsciously wanting to look nice for you. On the opposite side if one of her hands is on her hip or if her arms are crossed over her chest those are definite "no ways".

You can do similar things to let her know your interested without actually saying it.

Also, don't use lines most girls can see right through them and unless they are actually truthful and sincere.

Hope that helps.

**Opunaya** · 11-14-2007, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by w8_4_the_moonrise

tsk! tsk! Opu I'm telling mom...

Another reason for mommy to hate me. Wonderful.

They're right, you've got to tell us more about each other. And remember, she probably already knows that you're into her...most girls are able to pick up on that.

w8_4_the_moonrise · 11-14-2007, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Opunaya

Another reason for mommy to hate me. Wonderful.

They're right, you've got to tell us more about each other. And remember, she probably already knows that you're into her...most girls are able to pick up on that.

She'd find out on her own. All girls are psychic. Beware!