okey so i have had a few male friends but it always seems that i cant just be friends with a guy. i dont tell them that i want more because i dont realy want a relationship. its just that if i have a guy and we hang like friends i autematecly (sp?) start crushing on them despite his looks or wot not. and when i dont fancy them as soon as they have a girl friend i do. i know sound kinda selfish, but i realy cant just be friends with a guy without the fealings. do guys think the same?
do girls feel this 2?

NachtEngel

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Considering all my friends are female and I am not interested in any of them I would say it is possible.

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toowens

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Its actually very possible. Stop looking at people as potential relationships. I have many friends who are girls. I only like one and thats my gf and before her i didnt like any of them.

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I have a lot of male friends. I like one of them and thats because we are very close. He is the only one of my make friends that I have ever liked.

Estefanina

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I hang out with mostly men, and flirt with lots of them. Just my personality, but yes: Boys and girls can become friends... without the relationship.

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ChaosXIII

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Friends of the opposite sex = fornication with no strings attached! HAH!

Yeah, I have a few chick friends that I see nothing more than friends. When I was younger it was a different story. I think your going through these feelings because you are young and you haven't been through that many or haven't been in a relationship at all. It will change, but be care full because guys do the same thing and you may accidentally crush a few hearts and lose some friends because of it. But life goes on. Sometimes the best way to learn is through experience, especially when it comes to things like this.

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Stossel

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I'm really good friends with a few girls, but there's one that I'm really good friends with. The problem is, I like her a lot, and she's already got a boyfriend. So, I'm kind of forced into the friend zone. I'd rather not be, but there's times where I accept it.

In other words, as much as I'd like my situation to not be as such, is definitely possible.

Maybe you just like being close to friends, I dunno.

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You and my both brotha'.

And for most the part, guys are pretty much always DTF.

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Laina

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I'm friends with a lot of guys without any of that extra romance crap. I don't know exactly what to say to you though, since you really can't control if you get feelings for guys that you are close to.
Perhaps it's just a phase that you'll get over eventually.

Ol' Patty

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I have a bunch of female friends. Some I have very close relationships with with no sexual feelings whatsoever. It took time to build those relationships though.

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