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Hey, so its been a while since I've posted blah blah blah, sorry about that. Anyway, here's the deal: I'm still in Japan and have come to know the place I'm staying (Hikone, in Shiga prefecture) pretty well, and so, among other things, I've made pretty good friends with some bar tenders around here. So last night, I'm at one of the guys I know's bar drinking with a bunch of friends and everyone gets plastered. My one friend (we'll call her X for sake of anonymity) gets especially drunk. I just heard from another friend, Aaron, that the bar tender gave X a ride home last night but instead of immediately dropping her off he took her to the beach and, irregardless of him being married with two kids, started trying to make out with her, but she didn't want to. Apparently, after this he forcefully took her to the bathroom nearby and raped her.
She doesn't want anyone to know, and perhaps understandably, but this is straight up rape and it needs to be addressed. Question is, do I respect her wishes and keep quiet, which I really don't want to do, or do I breach her trust in me and tell someone about it. I feel that the latter is the best choice, but this is a super fucking heavy situation and I'm really unsure of how to act. 
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12-12-2007, 06:36 AM
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You go to the authorities right now! They will keep it a secret, trust me. If she doesn't get a rape kit done within 72 hours of that happening, then the guy will most likely get away with it anyway. She needs evidence, she needs to give a statement and let them know. Now. I know she doesn't want to talk about the details and especially with a cop who she doesn't know or whatever. It is going to be hard to talk about. They are going to assume that she is lying because a lot of women lie about things even as serious as this, so tell her to just keep a level head. When she goes through this, I hope she realizes that what she is doing is a good thing and she needs to put scum like this in jail or he can do it to someone else. Just please tell her to go to the police. ...and if she doesn't, you do it for her. That will give her the extra push to do what she needs to do. It's a touchy subject. She needs all of the support she can get and trust me, she might be mad at you at first but she will thank you in the long run.
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