I am a little freaked out

04-11-2007, 11:35 PM

So my boyfriend was drunk the other night and told me that lately he has been having very graphic nightmares about me being murdered at least twice a week for the last month. It's always by a different guy with no recognizable face, and before I get killed I get into a fight with one of his ex-girlfriends while we are out and the guy who kills me is her friend. I usually get my throat cut open while this guy is holding me from behind and Cory cant ever stop him. I was pregnant once or twice. He wakes up with cold sweat and really upset every time this happens and I am sad for him. If anyone can tell me what any of this means or why reoccurring dreams like this happen and how to make them go away I would really appreciate the help. Thanks to all

xsuper_freakx · 04-11-2007, 11:40 PM

I recently stumbled on a site about lucid dreaming.. Check it out..

Lucid Dreaming -- Dream Views

I don't know if he may find it helpful but it is something that takes time and dedication..

Something that someone else brought up from another thread is to let go of all the emotions from the day and go to sleep with a clean slate. It really helps to completely clear your mind and relax..

TrippinSmurf · 04-12-2007, 12:17 AM

There just fear dreams some people have them more then others. Best thing to do is just to make sure to reassure him that your not going anywhere and that you love him ect ect.

rclcryan · 04-12-2007, 10:39 AM

I would not let it worry you. But if you are loosing sleep, or just dont' want to deal with it anymore. I would first consult a clergy member of your religion. If you don't really believe in that route or don't feel comfortable doing this, I would suggest Hypnotherapy.

Hypnotherapy works extreemly well on the sub-concious mind. I would say after a few sessions he wouldn't have these dreams anymore. Maybe even after one.

Dreams can be fixed very easily. Also if you consult a physician/therapist they will perscribe drugs. I would do this as a last resort, but its whatever rout you wish to take.

I hope everything goes well, and may you have good rest from here on.