Engaged

Mycal · 09-10-2007, 04:28 PM

Ok i am engaged with someone for about 9 months now, and ive been with them for about 2 years. but is it bad to want different putang? I want to switch it up and feel the difference, its been so long! Please help

Caroline · 09-10-2007, 04:46 PM

If you're not satisfied with the woman you have, why are you engaged??

Mycal · 09-10-2007, 04:49 PM

i am satisfied with her, dont get me wrong. I just want some different dirt road

Caroline · 09-10-2007, 04:51 PM

I don't know...with a comment like that, it just doesn't seem like you're really ready to settle down with her.

Mycal · 09-10-2007, 05:19 PM

maybe not, i got about 3 years to figure it out

Caroline · 09-10-2007, 05:41 PM

In general, I don't think that it's wrong for you to want to want something new. I don't know how your fiancee would feel about threesomes, but that's one solution.

**Laina** · 09-10-2007, 05:44 PM

Most likely if you're lusting after someone else like that, you're not ready to be in a committed relationship. I'm not saying that what you're feeling is wrong necessarily, since it is a very normal occurrence to want change. But perhaps engagement isn't the right option for you at this point in your life.

Static · 09-10-2007, 08:20 PM

lol you pretty much answered your own question buddy. If you want to bang other chicks, you should most definently not be engaged...but think about it, are you gonna stop wanting to bang other chicks in 3..5...10 years...of course not, it's gonna be the same problem then. It's human nature to want something you can't have, and double since it's pussy and your a guy...lol.

**Ginevra** · 09-11-2007, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Static

lol you pretty much answered your own question buddy. If you want to bang other chicks, you should most definently not be engaged...but think about it, are you gonna stop wanting to bang other chicks in 3..5...10 years...of course not, it's gonna be the same problem then. It's human nature to want something you can't have, and double since it's pussy and your a guy...lol.

I agree that you'll probably always want something new when you agree to settle down. And I hate to break it to you, but you wanting to be with someone else isn't going to make her day, even if it is just for a variety of sex or whatever. If you do it she might leave and isn't wrong for doing so. So, put her on one side and variety or whatever else you are thinking of on the other and choose. I personally would go with this woman as long as you mean what you say when you say you are satisfied with her. You can always try new things to make it interesting.

You'll have to give up the option eventually unless you want to remain unmarried, that shopuld be weighed in there.

maggiesxrevenge · 09-16-2007, 12:34 PM

Don't even think about cheating....

maybe say you guys should take a break for little while to explore other options before settling down so you guys can be sure you want to get married and aren't making a big mistake.