perfect body/perfect weight - Page 5

Alyssa. =D · 08-07-2008, 06:57 PM

Whatever will make you happy.
If you want it...Go for it.
If you don't...No stress.
If you're not sure.. ....idk.

In the end, you should ultimately be happy with how you are.

PrincessKLS · 08-07-2008, 07:14 PM

Very true.... and I guess if I get some inspiration from various magazine pictures, etc it's not so bad. So far I know I want a flat as a pancake or crape stomach, large B-large D breasts (I have DDDs now), thin arms, thin legs, especially thighs that have an opening; and a thinner face. Don't know what to do about my butt yet, but I know I want it lifted, less cellulite, and I guess smaller but not a bony ass.

Static · 08-07-2008, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by PrincessKLS

Very true.... and I guess if I get some inspiration from various magazine pictures, etc it's not so bad. So far I know I want a flat as a pancake or crape stomach, large B-large D breasts (I have DDDs now), thin arms, thin legs, especially thighs that have an opening; and a thinner face. Don't know what to do about my butt yet, but I know I want it lifted, less cellulite, and I guess smaller but not a bony ass.

You ma'am are tripping!

First, do not go look at magazines to get inspiration to work out, all they will give you is less confidence and an unrealistic figure to strive for, magazine chicks look fucking disgusting, imo, everytime I see one, I think "shit yeah you better go get that photoshop touch up or else you definitely wouldn't be the 'quality' type this particular magazine is looking for...ps, what a fake bitch..." Next, I would agree with the stomach, I personally dig em a little curvy, but flat is just as good, the only thing that really turns me off is if a chick has obvious definition in her abs, or some crazy six pac... I have no clue how you plan to shrink your tits from a DDD, if you work out I think the best you could hope for is maybe a DD, but I don't think a B or even a big C is very likely... Thin arms are good, but I think in between thin and defined is best, you want a little bit of definition, but nothing crazy! The legs is way off, I've seen chicks whose thighs don't touch, and damn, that's another thing that looks really odd. Thick thighs are sexy, you can still have thick thighs and be in really good shape, but I guarantee I'm not the only one who digs em thick. And finally, KEEP THE ASS! I think I've stated it before, but the bigger the better! Same thing with the legs goes with the ass, nice and toned and firm, but the size is definitely not a problem!

I would also like to add that no chick should be 95lbs, unless she's under 5' or still in 6th grade or something... Don't let the magazines fool you into thinking all guys want thin, long legged, long hair, tight assed, big tits chicks...cuz that's bullshit. Those idiots who write that shit are probably virgins..

Alyssa. =D · 08-07-2008, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Static

You ma'am are tripping!

First, do not go look at magazines to get inspiration to work out, all they will give you is less confidence and an unrealistic figure to strive for, magazine chicks look fucking disgusting, imo, everytime I see one, I think "shit yeah you better go get that photoshop touch up or else you definitely wouldn't be the 'quality' type this particular magazine is looking for...ps, what a fake bitch..." Next, I would agree with the stomach, I personally dig em a little curvy, but flat is just as good, the only thing that really turns me off is if a chick has obvious definition in her abs, or some crazy six pac... I have no clue how you plan to shrink your tits from a DDD, if you work out I think the best you could hope for is maybe a DD, but I don't think a B or even a big C is very likely... Thin arms are good, but I think in between thin and defined is best, you want a little bit of definition, but nothing crazy! The legs is way off, I've seen chicks whose thighs don't touch, and damn, that's another thing that looks really odd. Thick thighs are sexy, you can still have thick thighs and be in really good shape, but I guarantee I'm not the only one who digs em thick. And finally, KEEP THE ASS! I think I've stated it before, but the bigger the better! Same thing with the legs goes with the ass, nice and toned and firm, but the size is definitely not a problem!

I would also like to add that no chick should be 95lbs, unless she's under 5' or still in 6th grade or something... Don't let the magazines fool you into thinking all guys want thin, long legged, long hair, tight assed, big tits chicks...cuz that's bullshit. Those idiots who write that shit are probably virgins..

More cushion for the pushin' !

I'm not bi or anythin, but if I were into women I'd like pretty much the same thing.

Germanboi · 08-07-2008, 11:28 PM

Not to be a downer, but there is something psychological you might have to get through as well when you reach your weight goal. I have a few friends whom have lost weight, but still felt fat because that is how they had always veiwed themselves...whether or not it is true. I hope for you it goes better in that department because being at your ideal weight and still not feeling good about yourself would be a horrible feeling.

ALSO to add onto what the other guys have said...curves are not bad! Ever hear of the phrase, "she's got childbaring hips" that is because women who have some fat on them are more likely to have healthier children than women who are supermodels and what not. The females body does naturally lay down fat during puberty for just the purpose of having healthy babies. That is, if you plan on having kids. AND PLUS some of my friends that are girls who are hourglass figure seem to be more attractive to me (a gay man) than I think they would if they were really skinny. As Static said...no woman should be 95lbs unless she is under 5ft...

and if I can put my two cents in for my own body...I am 5'6" and 130lbs...my weight goal is 145lbs...but i am having huge problems reaching that goal because I have a lack of excercise* equipment and no one to help motivate me. I had reached 140lbs last year but then I moved in with my bf who lives 2hours away from my parents and I had to leave my weight set there...so I lost the weight I had struggled to gain...

Anyway good luck with your weight loss procedures! Let me know how you are doing, ok!!!

Static · 08-08-2008, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by kingdomforakiss

yeah, i am just now coming to terms with my own weight. I have gained 24 pounds since graduating high schoo, which was only 3 years ago, but i am happy with that. I am finally filling out and getting curvy. my butt has gotten bigger, my hips are getting a little bigger, and i have gone up two bra sizes. the only thing i don't like about my body is that my thighs have gotten HUGE. I have a more slender frame, and am tall for a girl i guess, so that kind of bugs me but i am sure i will get used to it.

Good thing you brought that up, I don't think has been touched on yet, height. I think a girls height is kind of important, I really like a girl that's about 5'-5'5, any taller than that is a bit odd, and any shorter is also a bit odd. I havn't been with a girl outside those ranges (I think), so that could be the reason, but who knows? Usually I get a pretty easily detectable feeling of dominance from a chick thats like 5'9+, Idk why... That's when I think it would be better to be on the thinner side, just to take away some of that dominance feeling. My sister is really tall, about 5'10, I get the dominance feeling from her too...lol...idk...

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Originally Posted by Germanboi

Not to be a downer, but there is something psychological you might have to get through as well when you reach your weight goal. I have a few friends whom have lost weight, but still felt fat because that is how they had always veiwed themselves...whether or not it is true. I hope for you it goes better in that department because being at your ideal weight and still not feeling good about yourself would be a horrible feeling.

ALSO to add onto what the other guys have said...curves are not bad! Ever hear of the phrase, "she's got childbaring hips" that is because women who have some fat on them are more likely to have healthier children than women who are supermodels and what not. The females body does naturally lay down fat during puberty for just the purpose of having healthy babies. That is, if you plan on having kids. AND PLUS some of my friends that are girls who are hourglass figure seem to be more attractive to me (a gay man) than I think they would if they were really skinny. As Static said...no woman should be 95lbs unless she is under 5ft...

and if I can put my two cents in for my own body...I am 5'6" and 130lbs...my weight goal is 145lbs...but i am having huge problems reaching that goal because I have a lack of excercise* equipment and no one to help motivate me. I had reached 140lbs last year but then I moved in with my bf who lives 2hours away from my parents and I had to leave my weight set there...so I lost the weight I had struggled to gain...

Anyway good luck with your weight loss procedures! Let me know how you are doing, ok!!!

Atleast you're in the trying to gain weight catagory, I've never been on that side of the fence really, but I think eating stuff with lots of protein like chicken and beef will help out in bulking you out, there's also stuff you can buy in nutrition shops that help you gain extra muscle. I just run a few times a week and do pushups and situps and a few other things, really basic stuff, and it's gotten me down to a pretty decent weight, not that I've ever been extremely overweight or anything, I wanted to define my muscles and increase my endurance, those were my two main goals, so right now I stand at about 6'2, 185lbs, my stomach's flat and my chest and arms have really gotten pretty defined. I think the hardest part is consistency, you gotta go like every other day to make it work. I've been doing that little routine for 2 months nonstop. I really suggest excercise though, you wouldn't believe how much better you feel throughout a regular day and when you wake up in the morning, not to mention the psycological benifits, like if you feel depressed, that's also something I personally experienced. So there's a whole lot more to working out just to look good naked like most people do. Good luck man!

PrincessKLS · 08-09-2008, 04:10 PM

I'm also thinking of giving up pork, I'm weird about it. I like some of them but others I hate. Plus I'm parital to Judaism and vegetarian/holistic diets. I thought about doing that.