I recently started reading the book, "The Secret" and their advice on losing weight is to think thin thought and set the goal of a "perfect weight" for you. I know 5'0 tall I'm supposed to be between 97-128 lbs, maybe less and I'm more or less an hourglass figure with large breasts and the fatter I get the bigger they get and have quite the behind now
And I struggle with the idea of what body I would like whether I'd want a waifish figure like Nicole Richie (she's only 1 or 2 inches taller than me), curvy like Kim Kardashian, Pam Anderson, or something you might see in Playboy except I don't like all the women's boobs, I was looking at some of it online and there was this one chick that was skinny but her boobs were just way too big.
So anyway I don't know how I would look at 90-97 lbs, or 120 lbs, I was that weight and around my height at age 12 and I have like 34C breasts and a little chubby. And I've always felt fat.
And yes I know a lot of the Playboy girls are enhanced so I can't exactly go for the 20" or less waist with the C/D cup breasts.
I'm currently 215-220 lbs and a DDD cup. And even though my butt's big, I swear my stomach's bigger, ewww
I just don't know what to do; I thought about trying a semi-raw diet or semi-vegetarian.
Well, I don't know if this is a question type thread or not, but I assume the point is something like "what would you're perfect body/perfect weight be for someone you think is hot?" So here's my input...
I personally like girls shorter than me, atleast a heads length, I don't know why, but taller chicks seem a bit less attractive to me, not that it's a totally disqualifying quality. I like the dark hair, light skin combo, but the light skin red hair is a pretty big turn on as well, again, I don't know why... I think tan skin is really over rated. There's nothing sexier than a really hot pale skinned chick... After that, I'd say C size cup is my favorite, D's aren't out of the question, nor are B's, A's tend to be a tad small for my taste, anything larger than a D is a bit much. I like a little extra meat on girls, so I really dig the curves, a girl that's like 10-20lbs overweight can be pretty attractive. I'm a huge ass fan, the bigger the better...lol, once more, I don't know why... small feet are sexy. Pretty much sums up my ideal chick...
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Anywho... I'm around the same weight as you, yet my ass and breasts are smaller. I've been told several times I seem to look well proportioned for my height and weight. Mind you I'm only about 5'3''.
I think it's healthy that you may want to lose weight. But I don't think it's such a good thing if you're trying to fit into that "perfection" kind of thing. Why not just do enough where you could be comfortable in your own skin..
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I have no clue what mine should be...I'm 5'7'' so probably about 190 lbs. I'm at 215-220. I hate my body. I hate absolutely everything about it. The face, hair, penis, ass, eyes. Everything on me needs to be improved...I need to be a sexy man...then maybe people will like me... ;-;
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I have no clue what mine should be...I'm 5'7'' so probably about 190 lbs. I'm at 215-220. I hate my body. I hate absolutely everything about it. The face, hair, penis, ass, eyes. Everything on me needs to be improved...I need to be a sexy man...then maybe people will like me... ;-;
So what's keeping you from improving all that?
Work out to tone up your body, I've noticed that generally people who don't like their face don't like the shape of it, which also improves with excercise, it makes it slimmer and makes you look better, you can do so much shit with hair, whatever it looks like now it can always be improved, also your a guy so you can incorporate facial hair into the mix, can't help in the penis department, I've heard the only thing that solves that problem is time... ass will improve with excercise, wtf could you not like about your eyes?
Sounds like a pretty easy problem to solve...
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"How we raise our children is the most critical thing we do in our lifetime. The future is in thier hands and they will shape tomorrow based on what they learn from us today."
-John Doe Smith
"Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned."
What? I just don't like them. Is there a problem with that? I just hate me in general.
So you're content with being misserable with the way you view yourself?
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-Harold R. McAlindon
"How we raise our children is the most critical thing we do in our lifetime. The future is in thier hands and they will shape tomorrow based on what they learn from us today."
-John Doe Smith
"Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned."