I can't exactly remember whether or not i posted in that thread and I am not too ashamed to admit that I am too lazy to use the search function at this point but, I can agree where you and Stoss are coming from. Issues like this are always a double edged sword so, I should have seen this coming.
Before I close this post though, I want to say that if i did make any negatively criticizing posts within that thread, that I apologize for them. I'll be the first one to admit that I was probably not under the greatest mindset, and should have remained reserved.
As for the relationship between you and Archy, you are one of the lucky ones. I myself may have just found that one but, I'm not in a rush for it. Anyway, good luck to the both of you.