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Originally Posted by El_Subestimado
This is kinda sad in a way but, I am glad to see that you've got everything under control. Your family and your friends are your support system in this, which takes a significant amount of stress off of you. What's sad about it though is that this happens to a lot of women these days who think that the guy is going to be honest and own up to his responsibilities.
My friend Beatriz is pretty much going through the same thing except now, she took the baby's daddy to court for child support (which was the best thing she could have done for the baby) and even went a few steps further; she got a job, started going back to school and even found herself a guy that - so far, at least from what I have been seeing - is treating her right. They now are on their way too marriage with their second child.
Of course, not every story goes like this and in many cases, people - more times than none - aren't that lucky but, I just want you to know that I'm pullin' for ya. My prayers go out to you and the baby.
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Thanks, It really helps to vent to people and get everything out. I know life is going to be hard and that after the baby is born that it's going to get harder, but I know how much of a blessing a child is. I'm glad your friend is doing better, Ive talked to a lot of people in my position and they are in and out of their relationship with the father. I know how unhealthy that would be for me and my child, plus Ive lost all the feeling I used to have for him after all of this. My family could not be happier that I'm handling it the way I am, everyone has said I'm going to make a great mom and said if I ever need anything to let them know. My cousin's are having baby's too so they are giving me a lot of advice and I'm sure still will after he/she is born. Other then having a cold (I think I have one anyway) I'm feeling so much better.