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Originally Posted by Ginevra
For a person that says that they care about their friends but then are horrible to you I take it you mean someone who calls you their friend and then treats them badly? ANother thing similar to that is when people call you their friend when they really don't consider you one, or not what a friend should be.
However, what all constitutes being fake to you? If someone makes you mad but you know anger won't help, is it fake not to tell them you're angry?
Does it make me fake because I pretend that drive thru customers are right and I was wrong just because it's simpler? =P
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Originally Posted by Stossel
Yeah, that's what I was wondering...what is fake? What is real?
Where do you draw the line between personal issues and straight-out superficiality?
I know I can say that I have some personality traits that could be interpreted as "fake", but I know they're not, and some of my closest friends can attest to that.
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I'm not talking about little things, that would be stupid. I mean when someone takes on completely different personalities or when they turn out to have tried to look so nice and wonderful but aren't in the long run. The ones that in the beginning masquerade as kind, loving, caring people that want to be true friends. Then they turn out to obviously just have been trying to hard because they feel the need to put on some act. They go from being someone you really care about and think cares about you to the complete opposite. The ones that are two-faced. One day they are standing up for you and the next stabbing you in the back for no reason.