I have an extremely hard to getting really close to people, in fact I am only really close to like 2 or 3 people, only those 2 or 3 can I really call my best friends. I think it might have to do with what you say, a lot of people put on a public face and arent honest. Even over here where I am far away from my best friends I still cant manage to make very many friends or even acquaintances. Maybe I just dont like people, but a lot of people's attitudes frustrate me.