That guy sounds like a douche! How can someone not take care of their own kid? I don't get that, it's like it's half yours, half his, you are doing your part but fuck it, he get's to just skip out on his part?! There should be a law against that shit. I would most definitely not give the baby the fathers last name, fuck that guy, I'm sort of confused as to why you would even bother with all the shit he did... Just like Opyu said, get his ass for as much child support as you can!
__________________
"Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"
-Harold R. McAlindon
"How we raise our children is the most critical thing we do in our lifetime. The future is in thier hands and they will shape tomorrow based on what they learn from us today."
-John Doe Smith
"Philosophy is questions that may never be answered. Religion is answers that may never be questioned."