Sounds like you're doing the right thing. A woman (or anyone for that matter) should never be forced into doing something they don't want to do. I'm glad to hear that you stuck to your guns.... because a lot of girls just don't have the courage and will do anything to prevent their boyfriend from leaving them. You seem like a strong, level-headed person and you do not need a man to make you happy. I know what you mean about cuddling.... it sucks not having someone..... but sooner or later the right guy will come along who DOES love and support you! Until then.... maybe get a puppy? lol =p