You already know my feelings on this but I'm going to tell you again and MAYBE you will get it this time!
Just leave him alone. I know you love him and want to be with him but after over 200 letters and god knows how many phones and he still hasnt responded...I mean come on Ashley! You know I love ya like a sis but for god sakes stop doing this to yourself. He obviously doesnt know what he wants. I know you well enought to know that you could have any guy you wanted and here you are sitting around waiting on someone that has fucked you over too many times. I'm not trying to hurt you and you know that, but come one Ashley leave him alone. Go for one of the guys you worked with or someone at the club. I'm not saying that some time down the road you cant get back with him if he has decided what he wants and has grown up A LOT, but seriously hun just leave him alone for a while. Dont waste your summer on him. I think that you have been happier since he left minus the few months right after he left. Your one of the best friends that a girl could ask for and I dont want to see you all messed up because of him.
Thats what I have to say...lets hope it sunk in this time!